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Few thoughts headed into our 12th Annual “Freedom” celebration. As you all know, this event has big meaning for the Cross fam, rooted in an early tradition set by my Dad’s Dad who served and loved our country. He and my Grandma celebrated our freedoms in true American style at their farm in northern VT.

Em and I not only sentimentally connect with the family roots of celebrating freedom, but as I have grown in my faith, also see this day taking on a deeper meaning - we embrace that we were all sinners, slaves to our sin. But because God’s great love for us, He sent His Son Jesus Christ to save us, to set us free. For it is freedom that Christ has set us free!

It is so important to Em and I that we maintain this vision for the day while keeping the event enjoyable for all. As the kids get older and the guest list expands there are some practical “guard rails” I want to more formally enforce together this year. Better said:

We the people of the United States, in order to form a more perfect Day of Shenanigans, establish justice, ensure domestic tranquility, provide for the common defense, promote the general welfare and secure the blessings of liberty to ourselves and our posterity do ordain and establish this framework for this day

1. Have fun!

Oldie but a goodie. Unruly populous, shenanigans, shooting, swimming, slip and slide, speeches, sparklers etc.

2. Alcohol

Not a dry party. We give thanks to God for all He has made but we dont want to be a stumbling block for little eyes. The canoe will be filled with non alcoholic seltzers and water only this year. The beer, etc. will be in the unfinished garage/pantry. Some good stuff in there, enjoy!

3. Break from Screen Time

Placing a hard rule that no kids have phones at this event. If any parent sees a kid on a phone, green light to address it immediately. I’d also prefer no adult posting of pictures on snapagram.

4. Pool & Bathing suits

With the volume of kids, there will be designated swimming times when the ladder is open - we will be sure there is always an adult at the pool side during the set times. We will limit number of swimmers at once. Please have floaties for kids who cant touch. Also requesting modest bathing suits please.

5. Gun safety

We will be shooting with a bigger group this year at 9 AM. First 15 minutes will be reviewing gun safety rules. Dont worry about bringing ammo, I have plenty (we use a type that only carries so far and wont reach neighbors or those hanging at the house). On gun related note, feel free to have boys bring their toy guns for later in the day. Shoot is for age 18+ though any children a parent deems OK to watch the shoot, good with me (as long as said parent is present). I have extra ear protection for all.

Guidelines set so we can maintain heart and spirit of the event. I pray this day continues to be an experience that leaves an impression and legacy beyond us to your children and grandchildren like my Grandfather’s party did for me.

Love you all.


Justin & Emily
Freeland Sat Jul 01 2023

Operation Celebrate Freedom 2024

First thanks to all for being here to celebrate freedom.

Save the date for next year… Saturday July 5, 2025. If ever in doubt, closest Saturday to July 4 never in June. Invite all your friends.

Thanks most to Emily. God bless Emily.

Every year that goes by I relate to John Adams' letter to Abigail Adams more deeply. Many of you are familiar with these words he wrote on July 3rd, 1776, “I am apt to believe that this day will be celebrated by succeeding generations as the great anniversary festival. It ought to be commemorated as the day of deliverance by solemn Acts of Devotion to God Almighty. It ought to be solemnized with Pomp and Parade, with Shows (and speeches), Games, Sports, Guns, Bells, Bonfires and Illuminations from one End of this Continent to the other from this Time forward forever more.”

We are doing pretty good so far… and we are only part way through it. But now it is time to add the speech…. And don’t worry kiddos, unless I get rambling (or crying) it should take no more than 7 minutes…

It is interesting that after the quote I just read, John Adams went on to forecast that he was “well aware of the Toil and Blood and Treasure that it will cost us to maintain this Declaration and support and defend the states”

Today, while not about to fight a literal revolution, there are still “costs to maintain the declaration”. Different types of costs perhaps but costs nonetheless. As we look around us, culture, politicians, leaders, media - seem to be trying to not only divide us but shame us. Some want us to be ashamed of America’s past, others want us to be ashamed of America’s present, the result for many is that we are tempted to be afraid for America’s future.

In my reflections, I wanted to share some thoughts on this because these messages are rubbing off on me and I don’t even own a TV.

I was talking with a respected colleague about a work meeting we had last month, hosted at a historic property in Georgia. I said how I enjoyed the setting because it felt like “going back in time”. Without missing a beat, the lady I was talking with said in an offensive tone, “you mean, back in a time when women couldn’t vote”?

America has never been and never will be perfect. But I will not be ashamed of our country or the amazing men and women over the generations who have contributed, some by paying the ultimate sacrifice, to establish, to protect and to preserve this land. I will not be ashamed of the vision that founded our country, one nation under God, a belief that we are endowed by our Creator with unalienable rights - life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.

But how do we respond when we feel afraid or pressured by culture to be ashamed of our country? I am actually very curious of your thoughts… But right now, I’m going to share mine.

As I wrestled with this, I realize many of us are used to this already. As believers in God and His Son, Jesus Christ, we know we are called NOT to be ashamed of our faith, but to proclaim the incredible life changing news that by believing in Christ’s existence as God’s Son, His sacrifice and His resurrection, we are not only saved from our sin but blessed with peace and hope beyond measure (more on that another time)….

As Christian’s, we are called to be ready in season and out of season to share this great news! To convince, rebuke and exhort with all longsuffering and teaching. That verse goes on to say that a time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine but heap up for themselves teachers to scratch their itching ears - that they will turn their ears away from the truth and be turned aside to fables. Sound familiar?

What does any of this have to do with my colleague getting upset at me for enjoying history and what does any of that have to do with the Fourth of July?

I believe how we respond to a culture who shames us for our beliefs and history is part of our responsibility as Americans. So how do we do this?

I have no easy answer, but I do have a simple one. And I hope you are encouraged by it.

While I believe God will make it clear how to handle each situation we encounter if we stay in tune with Him, He has also given us, in His Word, a vision and a calling for freedom in Christ and how to live out our freedom.

“For you brethren, have been called to liberty; only do not use liberty as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this: you shall love your neighbor as yourself… (Gal 5.13-14)

Earlier on in that chapter, God says this even more succinctly - “Faith that finds its expression in love is all that matters.” (Gal 5.6)

So when leaders (or respected colleagues) tell us to be ashamed of our past

Serve one another in love.

When others tell us to be ashamed of our present,

Serve one another in love.

When you are tempted to be afraid for the future,

Serve one another in love.

kids… help me here

When media, music or insta chat tell us our country is evil,

Serve one another in love.

When we are tempted to stay quiet or worse yet, feel silenced, let your actions speak louder than your words and

Serve one another in love.

When you are tempted to feel helpless, remember to prioritize the incredible opportunity you have to influence the people you interact with everyday and

Serve one another in love.

When it feels like there is a failure of leadership and no good options to choose from, remember the only real leadership is servant leadership so

Serve one another in love.

And as we hold on to the hope that the true Leader of Leaders is not dead but alive and will come soon to have His way, let us

Serve one another in love.

Kids, look around. Friends, be encouraged and keep it up. Keep serving one another in love. We stand in great company and I will not be ashamed. I will not be afraid. We are committed to our marriages, to parenting and grand-parenting our families, to raising our children, to schooling the next generation, to building homes and houses, restoring rental properties, engineering road ways, hanging power lines, reinsuring nuclear power plant projects, data analytics, AI, IT (I actually have no idea what Tim and Brian do, but I know they are geniuses), financial advising, loan officing, teaching, coaching, caring for sick patients (and making sure they have good health insurance), starting new enterprises, leading teams of people, giving back to the church and broader community… Friends, keep it up,

Serve one another in love.

And for those of you who are still not convinced and remain concerned about the future, look around at these kids… and dont blink… they are already making their mark… running Etsy shops, publishing and editing magazines, cooking meals, devouring classic literature, managing bank accounts, training dogs, performing theater, playing music, writing code, drawing masterpiece artwork, winning baseball games, building chicken coops, disassembling pianos, hiking the Appalachian Trail, farming goats, cutting lawns, hunting and trapping, writing books, helping teach homeschool… Parents, your leadership is present, your faith, your heart, your attitude, your service is already producing great fruit. Kids, keep it up

Serve one another in love.

And if you are still not satisfied, remember our hope. John Adams finished the letter to Abigail saying that “through all the Gloom I can see the Rays of ravishing Light and Glory. I can see that the End is more than worth all the Means. And that Posterity will triumph, even if we should regret it, which I trust in God we shall not.” Talk about Rays of Ravishing Light and Glory… God tells us and our founding fathers lived it… that hard times produce endurance and endurance produces character and character produces hope.

The hope we have as those who believe in Christ Jesus is this - He is coming back. He will return. He will make all things right. We will look Him in the eye and finally be like Him. We will be redeemed and restored and finally and fully free to experience God in His fullness not only on a restored and perfected earth BUT ALSO in the heavenly places where we will be with Christ in His glory above all rule and authority and power and dominion, when the last enemy, death, is destroyed and all things are made subject to the Son and the Son Himself will be subject to Him who put all things under Him, that God may be all in all. Friends, don’t lose heart, keep

Serving one another in love.

God bless America!!

Kate S. - National Anthem.

Prayer


Justin and Emily
Freeland Sat Jul 06 2024